J.,
PLease DO NOT feel bad,
ITS call OLD, Its a really horrible thing that happens to all women, ESPECIALLY those of use with more than one kid,
I could share several stories, but here are a few that will make your heart melt ( OK maybe not melt )
I have and 11 year old, and a 3 year old, and a 21 month old
PLUS a Dog and a HUBBY.
SAHM
11 year old was driving me crazy I yelled at him and PISSED my self
Was pregnant, with my 3 year old, got a bad cold and PISSED my self EVERYtime I coughed, It was so bad I had to put 2 towels on the bed and ONE between my legs.
One day i went for a parent teacher confrence,with ALL 5 of my oldest childs teachers, standing there infront of them
went to lift up my kid PISS PISS and more piss.
Talk about humiliation.
JUST 3 days ago, the work me who are fixing my bathrooms asked me to look at something, I bent down and PISSSSSSSS
I was so embarrassed, didn't know what to do so I waited sorta backing out, of the room while talking, and then when they turned their heads i ran,
Been check for Infections and all that stuff , and been told it is normal, and surgery is NOT recommended at this time.
PS i am 34 year old mother of 3
Don't feel bad , it happens
M