R.K.
Last year my kids asked me to change my plans, for the holidays. My birthday is Christmas Eve and everyone came for dinner and I planned to hand out their gifts after dinner. My daughter wanted to host a dinner at her house and do the gift exchange then, so okay I went along. I box up the gifts and take them to my daughter's home, we have dinner and the gift exchange begins. I helped the grandchildren open their gifts and ooo and ahh for everyone ---- then the gifts are all handed out and NONE for me. I received nothing. Mind you this was a year and 5 days after my Mom died.
I was crushed.