E.J.
My husband has done things like that, but very seldomly. When he does, I correct him immediately because I will not allow anyone to tell my kids how they should feel or react to anything. I prefer my sons to be sensitive gentlemen rather that barbaric jerks. My husband is a sensitive guy to a point, but he also has a difficult time with showing emotion-which can be irritating. Men need to realize there is a BIG difference in teaching a child to be sensitive and teaching them to be tough. If any child is taught to keep their emotions bottled up, eventually the bottle will get shaken and explode!