My daughter had tubes twice the year she was four. As long as they were in and not clogged they were a good thing. the ear infections almost completly stopped where as before she had one constantly. She had he adnoids out the second time, but I haven't seen the benefits there. the surgury was fairly easy. And she was up and moving around that afternoon. She cried when she came out, but that is because they didn't give her her blanket like I asked them too, once i got back there and gave it to her she calmed down. The second time we had a little trouble before hand because she wanted to get up and walk around after they gave her the "I don't Care medicine" And then they took so long to take her back that it wore off before they took her and she became rather upset and I had to force her to stay in bed, but I saw other kids there for the same thing that were taken bake faster and had no problems. They always take the youngest back first.
My Daughter just got her tubes removed on Monday. they were still in her ears, but not in her ear drums. They had stopped working about 8 months ago, but we didn't want to do surgery to have them removed. she did well having them out in the ENT office, she was so brave even when he had a hard time getting one out because of all the ear wax. My only problem really was that they didn't work as long as I thought they should and even now she still has fluid behind her eardrums so she has to take nasaqort to dry it up. Most kids have outgrown them by now,but she hasn't.
Overall, I will say it was a good thing, but unless she just has non-stop ear infections again we aren't going through it again.