OMG my daughter is 10.... she has not yet gotten like this. OH geez, I hope she doesn't! Yikes!
Not easy huh?
Okay but anyway, my daughter is in 5th grade, and there are LOTS of girls in her grade level, that are wearing bras and are having growth spurts and have big feet, and they are FINE.
No one even cares or notices!
My daughter, wears a size 5-6 women's size shoe.
I am a size 7, and she can even fit some of my shoes.
She is HAPPY! She thinks its so neat, she can fit my shoes!
And I swear, she grew like overnight. She is almost 5 feet tall... and there are lots of kids in her grade level that are taller than she is.
All I have done with my kids, since they were toddlers, was to teach them to be themselves. So hopefully, my daughter will remember that as she hits the more awkward phases of Tweens. So far... she is just herself, she couldn't care less what others are wearing or not or what size they are. She just wears what she wants.
And I have the 'American Girl' books for her.
This is a GOOD series ya know.
For girls this age.
My daughter loves it.
Maybe get your daughter some?
I really sympathize with you.... its such an awkward age....
my daughter will be in middle school next year... egad!
Tell your daughter: that people will notice her MORE... if she keeps acting like that... all hunched over and self-conscious. People notice others more, when the person acts self-conscious.
Its just human nature.