I would say the kinect, it uses newer technology, and does not require a remote of any kind. it will encourage her to actually interact with the game later on down the road. there is kinect adventures, it has several games in it which require the person playing to run in place, lean side to side, or jump at certain times. there is also kinectimals, which allows children to interact with virtual pets. and play games with them. The Wii was good for its time, but as far as interactive game systems go, the xbox kinect is the best. and the one from playstation is of lower quality than the Wii.