I know how you feel, I moved 1000 miles away to Texas for 2 1/2 years and hated it,but I moved for my husbands job. Things were rough between us and I left him, I moved back to Illinois. The time apart made him realize many things and he asked me to take him back, I said he had to move to Illinois. He did, we took it slow, lived seperately and started over, 1 1/2 years later we are good, but if I never would have left, he would have continued to treat me horribly. I did not jump the gun with divorce, I tried to use time to see if things would change. You can file your own divorce, there is software out there, all you have to pay is the court fees. My mom prepared my uncles divorce.. As long as you can agree to custody and child support concerns and dividing up the assets, then you can do it on your own. I know the feeling though, the empitness, the loneliness, the longing for faimly and friends, feeling isolated and just down right depressed. I know those feelings and time worked for me, but time may not be your answer, I left b/c I hated the way he made me feel,but I still loved him deeply, if you find you are not in love with your husband, then time may not change a thing. If you need someone to talk to, you can email me, I understand how you feel.
M.
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there is also an online support group at ojar.com, they are a great group to talk to, they got me through my 4 months of seperation.
M.