Being in the Mood...

sometimes I will "sext" him :) he loves that and knows what to expect when he gets home from work!
Flirt!!! It flatters my hubby when I flirt with him b/c he feels "wanted" and it's fun and can really get you in the mood.
I love to whisper "dirty talk" in his ear when the kids are around and I know all he can do is think about what I've said and has to wait for the rest!

last night we were sitting on the couch and I kind of gave him that sexy look, he gave it back...but kept watching tv. So I waited about 10 minutes and sent him a text that said "want to take it to the bedroom?". He hopped off the couch and off we went! :D

what's the old joke: all you have to do is "breathe" & he thinks you're ready?!!

Well, if it's sometime during the night, all I have to do is get up and shut and lock the door and he's ready!

So I guess you're over it then?

WooHoo, somebody gettin' some TONIGHT!!!

:)

I mean, we spend a lot of time in the laundry room on account of we have three teenagers in the house who never seem to sleep, sigh. In fact when I even just say 'LAUNDRY ROOM', well, you know, boing!
Really, true story!

Actually my guy ALWAYS assumes I'm as horny as he is until I show him otherwise, sigh, which is more often than not. Course it doesn't stop him from trying.

Any time my hubby hears the shower running after the kids go to sleep he knows what is on the agenda for the night. Other times when he is sitting on the couch in front of the tv and his laptop I will crawl across the floor and give him a few deep kisses and then he says, "let me finish this last note, and I'll be right up!". I often send him flirty texts while he is at work. If I am not wearing yoga pants and a tee shirt to bed,he knows it is game night. In fact, he refers to my lingerie as my "uniform" ;-)

We also have a key phrase, "Let's spend time!" He knows that if I text him during the day and I say that, he better not even THINK about going anywhere but right home after work, because it is ON!

flash him my boobs works every time it is like a link between seeing my boobs and his hmmm. or just go start kissing on his neck or ear. rub up against him in a descrete way. they all work but boobs work better for him.

We have a look that each other can read...just like Anne A said. We send sexy texts and emails. I have started calling our weekly date nights in "sexy night". He knows that sexy night is going to be amazing, especially if i have a big bottle of red and filet mignon cooking! (i get it when it is on sale and freeze it) We will usually end up finishing the bottle by the firepit. Then coming in to watch adult cable movies or playing our adult card games :) After that is the fun...lol! We tease each other and build up to it all night.

There is so many fun things that we do. Too many to list...some to personal for this site, i think ;) I really feel bad for the couples that are missing this in their life. It is such an important, amazing part of the relationship. Thank you for asking this question... you have me already looking forward to planning another "sexy night"...have to check the freezer for a special dinner ;)

I'm laughing at this because so many of these responses are seductive and sultry, which is totally absent for DH and I. We're both very "cut to the chase" people.

I'll either walk into the room totally naked and just stare at him, or I'll actually say "how about you f*** me now?".
It works for us. Ha!

Ummm, I grab him. LOL. Im pretty direct. When I feel like playing coy I text and flirt with him throughout the day. Love sending him naughty pictures, usually makes his workday a lot better too. =)

I pretty much have to just look at him a certain way--thats about all it takes.

just a certain way i touch him thats different from other touches, the man can take a hint.

I do have certain clothes I wear when I want some... sometimes I leave hints...or pretty much just take it...

Well, considering I am 34 weeks pregnant, it's a little different than normal. Now, I say, "can we have a date tonight?" And then it's still up in the air as to how I feel. :(
Before, I would take a shower and put on a thong....that ALWAYS lets my husband know what's up. lol

my husband and i LOVE being flirtatious during the day.....sets the mood way in advance, we'll also "flirt" with other people lol

or sometimes, he'll just jump right in and seduse me like CRAZY obviously during the day when we're in a room alone together...drives me crazy and he knows it, obviously stronger than i am, i can't get away....then IT'S ON lol

love posts like this

L. is this make up sex for the jarred spaghetti sauce dinner?

There are so many great tips here a few I will be trying...My husband is a bit on the proper and conservative side, so I tend to be either a little flirty...I love to play on words...I can turn anything he says into a sexual inuendo...

Last night he said something about s/o 'breaking the mold' and I responded with, "I'll tell you what mold you can break tonight...." Seems to work for us.
And just being naked in bed before him seems to do the trick.

Hi, L.:

First of all, make sure the kids are taken care of. D.

There are things I do, say, wear, behave. Sometimes there are advances and other times we are very spontaneous. I just make certain all of the bases are covered and there is tons of variety. He's the same way too.

My personal favorite is the improptu, "Take your clothes off." these words are said over and over again until the requestee is naked. :-)

Sometimes I make him think I'm not in the mood and then pounce. Other times I'm very blunt in asking for "Advanced Combat Cuddles."

Of course there was the time I texted his First Sgt. and told him, "Sgt. M will be late getting back from lunch, because I said so." Fortunately Top had a great sense of humor and I got back, "Okay, but he has to be in by 14:00, and not broken. Have fun!"

Good ideas ladies keep em coming!!!