Can You All Do Me a Favor and Give Your Kids an Extra Hug and Kiss Tonight?

Updated on August 22, 2011
K.J. asks from Naperville, IL
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I got some bad news today about my little cousin. He is 16 years old and was just diagnosed with a very rare GI disorder that has a 1 in 3 fatality rate. It is so rare that there have only been 500 diagnosed cases in the history of English-recorded medicine.

I have written about him a few times before, usually when someone asks a question about getting their tubes tied, or not wanting to have another baby (that they've already conceived.) My cousin, Danny, was his parents' "bonus baby." He came along about 13 years after my aunt had her tubal. Now with his life hanging in the balance, I just can't imagine what his parents are going through. He is their BABY, and such a good and sweet kid. The family has already gone through other hardships this year, including my uncle's brain surgery, my cousin's miscarriage and divorce, and having to put their grandparents in a nursing home.

So, if you could...extra hugs and kisses for your little ones tonite.

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V.W.

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I was already giving my little one a long cuddle because my mom just found out that her cousins' son lost his 3 month old to SIDS. Now when I see him tomorrow morning (He's spending the night at his daddy's), I'll have to give him another long cuddle!

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E.J.

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That is an incredible story and they have my prayers. I will be sure to sneak in an give my son another bed time kiss. Thank you for reminding us to never take a minute with our children for granted. Best Wishes to you and yours. :-)

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D.S.

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Sending lots of prayers and love to your cousin and his family!

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T.F.

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I truly feel for your family. I've read your questions and responses and respect your opinions, although sometimes we don't have the sane opinion

Bless your family, I know it is difficult. I have an only child ( 16) with no regrets.... Knowing full well of potential risks.

Just know I will keep your family in my thoughts.

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S.H.

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Will do.

I almost cried reading your post...
hugs to you too.

;)

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D.B.

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So sorry for you and your entire family. Hugs to you and Danny, and our prayers are with him.

Dawn

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T.J.

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Thoughts, hugs, and prayers to all of you!

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A.H.

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Extra hugs and kisses and prayers for your family too! God takes care of His children and He will for your cousin too! God Bless!
A.

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J.B.

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praying for him. that is so sad that he and your family has to go through this.

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M.T.

answers from Chicago on

Will give my guys some extra love tomorrow.

I hope they are going to the very best GI doctors. We have a very good friend at U of Chicago and he is amazing and is asked to speak all over the world. I would recommend going there.

Thoughts are with your family.

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D.K.

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Will do and we will also say prayers for your cousin and his family.

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D.J.

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Hugs to mine and yours.

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J.K.

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Prayers already your way!

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R.R.

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Thank you for sharing, and I am praying for Danny and his family. I'm also believing he will be one of the 2 out of 3, God bless ✿

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S.S.

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Well that brought tears to my eyes. Will do and here is a hug for you.

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C.K.

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And prayers for your nephew on a speedy recovery

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S.H.

answers from St. Louis on

kudos for sharing this....& prayers on the way.

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K.U.

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I'm so sorry for what your family is going through - I hope everything turns out okay. Prayers and best wishes to your cousin and his parents.

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C.O.

answers from Washington DC on

my kids are at a sleep over tonight - but I'll be sure to give them extras when I see them tomorrow!!

My prayers to your cousin!! May he be one of the lucky one's to survive!

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C.S.

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My heart goes out to your family--I will pray for him and you all. And thank you for the reminder of what a gift it is to have healthy children.

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D.R.

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Thank you for sharing. Life is a blessing and can be too short.

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J.R.

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Hugs for you too! Hug them as much as you can, I miss hugging ours as they at both away in the military.

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C.N.

answers from Baton Rouge on

Sorry to hear about your cousin. It's always worse when it's a young person whose life is in the balance. I'll hug my not-so-little one, and also cyber-hug you and your family.

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