Its also "Be Nasty Day" (what the heck defines that??), and National Popcorn day!
I work with kids so I am thinking to NOT celebrate the nasty thing one! Too many ways that could go seriously wrong for me!!
I know it sound sappy and cliche..but my Momma inspired me all the time. A housewife of the 1950's...sock hops and poofy dresses in high school. Trained (literally) to BE a housewife. Married at 19, spit out a girl and boy in the first 3 years, right on schedule. Moved to a new state away from all of her family (and stayed seperated from them completely cuz of hubby..his rules, he was in charge). While he continued affairs, she was the "in the dark" housewife who did what was expected of her. Until I was born 14 years into the marriage and she found out about his activities.
She gave birth to me, and 9 days later loaded up her 4 children and flew back to the family she had not seen in 10 years. But it only lasted 3 mos and she came back to 3 more years of chaos until she was out of it. My entire childhood was spent dirt poor in a falling down house, with a jerk of a Dad who lived 4 houses away and did nothing about it but be sarcastic.
Mom went to night school in her early 40's (I was about 9/10) and got an accounting degree and that made our lives different. She was the first, and only until 2010 when I got a a 2 year degree, in my entire family to have a college degree.
But we had love, and respect and understanding...and fun! My Mom made our lives as great as she could and I honestly would trade none of that because I would not be who I am today without it. I miss her every single day (she died suddenly in 2007).
I don't have much. But I have a very talented daughter who will go off to the college she wants to go to, with a decent scholarship offer. She is a great kid. Witty and smart and fun to be with. So creative and talented!
I wish my Mom was here today so I could tell her my news I got today. I got accepted into a bachelor program in Early Childhood Education (while maintaining my 60 hour a week home childcare business). If I can make the money work, I start in May. Its a really really big deal in my family. I will get my BA before my daughter finishes her own degree and if I really really can make it work, I will push thru to the Masters program.
I suppose Mom already knows, huh???
Happy Ladies day!