T.A.
Hi R.,
I don't know much about divorces or how they all work. I would suggest that you try, try, try to work it out. Divorce is so hard on everyone. Marriages are not easy but that is what makes them better is being able to really push past the hard times. It brings a bond that can not be broken. I would just encourage you to stand fast and pray for your marriage and your spouse. We will pray for you also!
Blessings,
T.