Crying Around People

My son is 2 and he's been that way since he was little too. He's grown out of it somewhat now it just takes a little time for him to get used to someone then he's fine. Just give him some time he'll come around. Tell grandpa to steer clear of him at first and let him see you interacting with g'pa and that'll help him know he's not a "stranger". Most kids that are like this when they're little become the most sociable kids when they're older. Hope this helps!!GL

Definitely ask grandpa to take it slow, back off and let your son initiate any contact with him. If your son feels he has more control it may make for less tears.

Beards can be a scary thing and for a 6 month old who is just beginning to be more aware of his surroundings it can be very scary.

Tell Grandpa to take it slow, talk gently and maybe even let your son "talk" to him on the phone. Maybe getting accostomed to grandpa's voice will help him. Also pics of grandpa with out the voice and movement will help.

Good luck and tell Grandpa not to take it personally. I am sure your son will love that grandpa beard and all in no time.

Merry Christmas and God Bless you and your family

Hi. I don't really have any advice, just reassurance. My 2 yr old daughter also did this when she was a baby. I think it was my dad's beard. He is kind of a big guy. With those two combos, i think he just overwhelmed & scared her. She grew out of it though. He is now one of her very favorite people. Hang in there!

Hi A.,

I am right there with you. I have a six mth old daughter Who cries when its not me. Even with her father. I know that it is just a phase. What I have been told that I have tried is this. First if at all possible take your child a little early to where ever you are going so that he can get used to the new surroundings. Second impose the no on picks the child up rule just until he or she has gotten a chance to get used to the idea of new people and places (Even if it is a grandparent) the child needs to ease into the situation. If You do this your child will not be so upset. The other thing is my father works a lot so he does not see my little girl every week but if you make it a point to see your parents often once or twice a week this will disapper all together. Keep out pictures of family in a child size way. Take Pictures and have extras made then have the lamenated and put them at Eye level for the child. you lamenate them so that the child can touch it without making a slober mess you have a six mth old so you know what I mean. Good luck and let us know how you do. J.

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My oldest whos now almost 4 never cried but he would wrap around me and be very shy...still is sometimes. But since I was sheltered myself (I wouldnt even order through a drive through or make a call in over the phone) I dont expect him to be all that outgoing.And my almost 5 month old cries at the site of anyone that not me,my husband or by oldest boy. Some people he cries with..others he dont. I honestly think my baby picks up on bad vibes. Everytime were around moody family members he cries and then around layed back bubbly people he interacts with them.Honestly I think you should not force him into contact with anyone he's not confortable with himself. And if he doesnt see grandpa often then he prob is likely to react offish b/c he's out of his comfort zone. With both my children I am thankful that they know that their always safe and protected with me and my husband and I never feel embarrassed by the fact that my children express shyness around people their not completely familar with. Especially vs. the children that I sometimes come in contact with (neighbors kids) that ask me to buy them a bike!Anyway...u have nothing to worry about, let ur baby be himself and if hes not ready for granpa to hold him them let ur son sit on the floor near him and have grandpa slowly interact with him.He'll more than likely grow out of it.