Hello, I so am frustrated and need to Vent. I have an Aunt and Uncle who I have been super close with for years and one day it all changed. Someone put me in the BS middle of something that is none of my business, AHHH. Well my Uncle and I, I believe are okay now but my Aunt will not answer my calls EVER. And it has been months since this happened. We used to talk almost every other day. . Yet her family see her and my uncle and their newly adopted duaghter all the time. I can feel something fishy going on. I am supposed to be her Godmother, but I don't know her, even though I've call at least a few times a week to try to set something up all summer long. I am so tired of trying and I am fet up. Ahhh, I hope this works it self out, because I am out of options. Talking to them when finally getting a hold of them check, calling weekly, check, emailing check. I guess I could try writing on her FB (Edit I meant private message) in call me to set something up. But if calling and email don't work I highly doubt that will.
Thanks for listening
I did nothing wrong by the way their the ones who accused me. And we have seen each other at get togethers with the family and are fine at there, talking, laughing, etc. And the daughter they adopted, she is 9 years old and the baptism hasn't happened yet at least I do not think it has. I am trying because I do not want them saying you made no effort to call and have a relationship with us or their daughter. And I wasn't gonna blast her on FB I was just venting. Thank you
Dawn is right, give them some space. The public Facebook blasting is a bad idea.
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I think you need to give the aunt that's offended some space. You're far too worked up to explain anything to her and have her believe you. So you really need to back off and cool yourself off and take some distance from the whole situation. That's the only way to heal for both sides.
Were you present at the baby's Baptism? If you were then I'm sorry you're missing out on your godchild's early months. If there hasn't been a Baptism or they had the Baptism and you didn't attend... I'd like to suggest that you be cautious in calling yourself the godmother. It's very possible that with whatever has gone on with your offended aunt that they've chosen another godmother.
I think it is time to let the butterfly go free and see what happens.
Sounds like a bunch of drama.
Stop trying to contact them.
DO NOT use FB as a way to handle personal business. It's childish.
See what happens.
