J.L.
My step-mother passed away about 2 1/2 years ago from breast cancer, she was only 50. Several things happened after she died. The day that she died, I was out walking with my husband and my daughter and up ahead on the street we saw something shining very brightly, the sun was reflecting off of it and you couldn't miss it. When we got closer, I saw that it was a small medallion of St. Mary just lying there in the middle of the street. My step-mothers name was Marybeth. About a week or so later, I had a dream so vivid and it sounds very cliche and typical, but my step-mother was just standing there with this bright white light surrounding her. Her hair was growing in in L. tufts and she had a few bandages on her chest (she was extremely bruised on her chest when she was alive, most of her skin was a horrible purple color), but she looked so healthy. The only thing she said to me was "Jen, I feel great. I am doing so well." The next one came several months later when my husband and I were going to Ocean City, MD (where she and my dad went every year and my husband and I would also go). I told my dad and he pouted and was so upset, it was kind of silly, like I can't go on vacation! My first day there, he called me almost 10 times!! I guess he was just so upset because it brought back memories for him. That night, I had another dream about my step-mother and all she said to me was "Jen, he is being ridiculous! Tell him to grow up!". My step-mother was very straight forward and would say whatever was on her mind. We didn't have that great of a relationship, but I figured that she could communicate with me because my mind wasn't so blocked with grief like my dads or my step-sister's was. I truly believe that she was talking to me and wanted me to tell my dad. I haven't dreamt about her in a long time, but I believe that your grandmother is letting you know she is doing well. Don't let it sadden you, be happy that she is happy and well and that she obviously loves you.