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I am not an attorney, however I think if she can prove hardship a new judge may be able to revisit a case and set knew guidelines. If I were your husband I would document everything and I would get a good attorney. I think if it were me I would contribute child support and keep record of everything. This way when he goes to court he can show the judge his good faith and hopefully a judge will see his intentions are good. If he can prove she was reckless in her behavior and lost all of the money foolishly it may help, but if she lost her job and that is how she lost everything it could make a difference. If he thinks these children are possibly not his then why isn't he getting paternity tests done? That determination in itself would make a difference in the outcome. I think I would go for a consult with a professional and get sound advice. Sometimes it doesn't matter who did what it becomes a matter of what the law says has to be done. Good luck she sounds like a real prize LOL!!! I also own a childcare center in Rutherford. We are neighbors!!! I know for me it is the most rewarding job and it sounds like the same for you.