Hi S.,
I am so sorry to hear about their disregard for your request. That is disrespectful and not to mention wrong.
Right after I had my first son I started talking to my doctor about concerns with vaccinations. I let her know that I had every intention of getting all the vaccines but wanted to space them out and do it on my own terms. We talked over different ideas and she really took the time with me.
I guess what I am saying is make an appointment with your pediatrician and be in the "driver's seat" from the get go. Let him/her know what you want and how you want it done. You are the customer and that is YOUR baby. I let my pediatrician know that I respected their practice but it would be me to live with these decisions and I needed a doctor that would support me. She was awesome about it.
We go to the Lee's Summit Physicians group and our Dr. is Dr. DeWitt. She was genuine when we discussed all this.
You might check out a website that has a lot of resources for moms and tons of vaccine info. It is the Dr. Sears website. You can sign up for newsletters and such. These guys are always on Oprah talking about children's health. They have a spaced out vaccine plan too. Really Helpful.
Best of luck to you and your baby.
J.
PS - make and appointment and Let Them Have It!!