E.C.
Hi Tina:
Tofu is really simple to cook with because you don't need to worry about deboning it, making sure it's cooked long enough, etc. If you do any stir-fry recipes with meat and vegetables, you can just substitute cubes of firm tofu (cut about the same size as the meat) for half the meat. I usually add the tofu at the end of the cooking time since it'll crumble if I stir it around too much. If you steam fish, you can just put sliced tofu under the fish when you steam it, or add it to the cooked fish afterwards, it absorbs the flavor of the sauce nicely (one super-easy way I prep tofu and fish that my kids love is put tilapia filets in a microwave-safe dish, combine about 1/4 cup broth with about 1 tbsp. soy sauce and 1 tbsp. sugar, 1 tsp. corn starch, 1 tbsp. grated ginger root and add to dish, microwave for about 4-5 minutes (check for doneness and then if needed microwave for another minute or so until done), add the tofu for the last minute or so of cooking, top with minced green onions if desired,
And a simple non-Asian way to use tofu is to crumble about a half pound of it per pound of ground meat in meatballs, meat loaf, etc.
You can also check your local library for Chinese and Japanese cookbooks. And tofu manufacturers often have recipes on their web sites - haven't tried any yet b/c I usually just improvise, but here's a few links:
http://www.azumaya.com/azumaya/
http://www.house-foods.com/Tofu/recipes.aspx
Happy cooking!