S.H.
Like.
I tell my kids, I love them, but I also... "like" them as a person.
I find that saying that to them, is very important.
My son will ask me, when he is naughty and knows it "Mommy do you still like me???" And I always say "yes, I like you no matter what.. .and I love you always. No matter what. "
I find, that is also important to say to my Husband.
Even if he is irritating at times. LOL
Knowing that a person is liked... is important.