I loved everyone's answers....especially Regina's and Kelly's.
I'm not quite 40 (I'm 38) but have done the shifting a little early, I think. I also left my unhappy marriage, and I just can't believe the world of possibility that is out there. I feel like I woke up after a decades-long sleep, and I'm alive again. This stage in life really is NOT the continuation of an old road, but a brand-new road that can go anywhere we want it to!
To me, the very very best thing about getting older is how much less I care what other people think about my choices. Operating from my internal compass instead of looking to those around me to tell me how I'm "supposed" to be or feel is the most freeing sensation in the world. I trust myself so much more, and don't beat myself up for every little thing I do "wrong" or for every "flaw."
I've never been religious, but I have found that my same-aged friends and I have a much more profound spiritual belief and curiosity than we did when we were younger and focusing on different things. We're figuring it out for ourselves instead of depending on someone else's answers. That has added so much to my life.
I love your focus on gratitude, and on being independent. You sound like a strong, courageous, and fun woman.
One thing that absolutely changed my life and attitude was a class I took that I highly recommend to anyone who wants to figure out who they are, where they've been, what they want, and how to get there. It's called Pathways, and it is absolutely indescribable what it has done for my life. The link is www.gopathways.org if you want to check it out.
Enjoy every moment! Hugs!