C.F.
S.,
You have GOT to go try the Arther Ave. Market in the Bronx. It is right by the Zoo/Fordham Univ. on 187 St. It is the REAL Little Italy and you will love it. There is a cafe and a deli that serve all kinds of great food. You can buy fresh produce there and the kids love it because there is so much to look at. There are even a few fun shops for mom.
http://www.arthuravenue.com/index.jsp
Also, there are several great places up central ave. in Yonkers. Pizza and Brew is wonderful. All three of these places are great. Spiga is family style.
http://www.racanellirestaurants.com
My husband and I moved here about three years ago from suburbia Texas and we felt the same way. We live in Yonkers and often drive up to Rockland County to get our Chili's fix :-) http://www.palisadescenter.com
If it helps, you will learn to enjoy things about this part of the country, it just takes a little getting used to. Good luck and enjoy.