S.B.
Definitely I know how that feels. My biological mom pays attention to only 1 of 6 grandkids. She never calls, sends a card, or anything. My daughter who is 4 has no clue who she is which is sad. My daughter has a super tight relationship with my MIL (while I can't stand my MIL I think it's nice that she cares enough to be in her life) and my stepmom is very close with her as well. It's some kind of character flaw I think. I learned over the years to not get upset about it. It's really the grandparents fault for not wanting to be involved with their grandchildren. I have no idea why it happens...but I would rather her stay out of her life than come in and out and make the children more upset.