J.R.
1. Do you both work? No, I’m a SAHM
2. How many hours a day does your husband spend at work (including commute)? 10 to 12
3. Does he help with the kids and dinner clean-up afterwork? Not really, sort of agreed that that's my job since I stay home. He always does bath time for our daughter.
4. How much time out of the day does he spend alone? 45min in the morning at the gym and not really any alone time in the evening. He will play XBox early in the morning on the weekend before our daughter and I get up.
5. How much time out of the day does he spend with the kids, playing, talking, reading, etc? During the week, he's only home for about an hour before she goes to bed and we usually go on a family walk, feed baby and have bath time during that time.
6. How much time out of the day does he spend alone with you? Once our daugher is asleep, we eat and watch tv together until bed, so a few hours maybe.
7. How many times in a work day do you call, text or e-mail each other? about 5 times on average. Usually email bc it's easiest.
8. Is your husband often difficult to get a hold of? Sometimes, but not to the point of it being a problem. If it's an emergency I can always get him.
9. Do either of you have friends from work the other has never met? If so, do either of you do things outside of work with these friends?
Not really. Maybe on occasion someone will be there that we don't know but most everyone else there we know well.
10. When he leaves the house for an evening with friends, does he tell you exactly where he’s going to be? Yes, always.
11. Does he call you while he’s out? Usually texts me several times but is never out that late.
12. Do you keep track of each other’s spending, i.e. share receipts, etc? For the most part. As long are our bills are paid though, it's not a big deal. Big purchases are discussed.
13. How much traveling does your husband do for work? How long is he usually gone at stretch? He travels 1-3 times a year usually 2 days at a time.
14. While he’s traveling, does he call you before he starts his day? Of course.
15. When he’s away how long do your phone calls last at the end of his day? Not that long because we usually talk when possible during the day. (or text)