Hi S.,
The GOOD LORD knew you, your boyfriend and the baby you are expecting, before He formed any of you in the womb. Therefore, HE also knew who would be whose parents. SEE Ps.139.
S., I am not making excuses for the ones of us who are saved, to continue in sin, I am not. But God's grace is sufficient for me, you, and all believers. Jesus is gracious, slow to anger, and full of mercy.
It seems you have a penitent spirit, and that's exactly what God wants. Repent for this also, confess what your heart is sharing with us, to God, and He is faithful, and just to forgive you, and cleanse you from all unrighteousness. The Lord reminds us that we are quick to judge the outward appearance of people, but He judges the heart (spirit).
At that very right moment, tell your friend you need to be married before yours and his baby is born, even if it is a secret ceremony, with the celebration and public announcement coming later. Express to him how extremely, stressful this whole situation is, because of your faith.
Let him know how much you love and appreciate him, but that you really need him to understand. Use this as a witnessing tool that will get him saved, and/or closer to God. Remind him, tenderly, that God makes the rules, and that the baby needs the blessing of his father's name, and covering.
I know that many of us are praying for you and with you about this matter.
Take a stand for God and His righteousness, and He will stand tall and strong for you. In Jesus name, I call in, and claim the victory for you and your family.
Praise God S., your faith has brought you a positive response from GOD. When you shared with us, you were really reaching out to God, in us.
Be strong in the LORD,
Beverly