my guy wants to rent a porno he says to learn new moves.is it possible thats true or does he just want to see naked chicks.this bothers me because ii totally hate pornos.
What bothers me is when someone tries to get me to do something that I disagree with--no matter the "reasons" given.
Nope not true. I think its his way of telling you that he is watching them already. There are no new moves in those things. Is this a new guy? If it is then this might be a red flag, and if you hate them then he is not the right guy for you. It will always be a never ending battle of this.
Well, that's silly. I wouldn't watch "GI Jane" to train for combat, or "Black Swan" to learn to dance.
Figuring out how to spice up your sex life has to be done respectfully and as a team. You both need to be honest and open about what you like and don't like.
Consent and communication are sexy. Doesn't sound like he's doing a great job of either.
The real problem here, is that he's pressuring you into doing something you hate. That is showing you an incredible amount of disrespect.
Do you have a favorite super romantic sexy movie you like? Maybe you could suggest you 2 watch it instead..
sometimes you can learn a few new things from them. if he wants to watch it with you go ahead you might like it and learn somethings. good luck
There are books that show new moves. Rent one at the library for him, then you will know for sure if that's what he's interested in. I'm not against porns but I don't think you will learn anything new from them.
If he want to learn something he can check out this site:
http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/
It used drawing manikins to show the positions. If you know anything about them you know that they have less than barbie or ken!
I don't think there is something to learn from xxx movies. If he says he want to watch it to learn new moves, its better to do it practically. I feel, you can have a mind blowing sex only by practically doing it. Men have more fantasies than women. Just do sex according to your fantasies, (if both the partners are willing) and you'll end up having a good climax. And upon that, whats there in those xxx movies, they seem to be too unrealistic. It seems as if the girl is being screwed and she screams out of pain not out of pleasure.
