It is so interesting to me that so many adults say they where so mad or hurt when they realized their parents had lied about Santa..
First of all it is pretend. Just like when your child is pretending to be a super hero or an animal.. You play along with them.. It brings them joy, it also helps them become more creative.
I was so proud of myself when I figured out the truth about Santa and got to be part of the" magic of Santa" for the younger kids. It was fun to know I was part of the grown up world knowing the truth about Santa.
I have always said, as long as you believe, Santa will bring you gifts.. I also love play along santa for those in need.. Many times, leaving surprises all signed Santa and the gang.. Never fessing up.
We helped a former employee for many years, when she became extremely ill and could no longer work. She was losing her home, her car.. Having trouble paying bills, but Santa, Mrs, Claus, the Elves and Rudolph sent her gift cards each Christmas for $100.'s of dollars for about 3 years..
We never said a word.. She has no idea, except that the envelopes return addresses were all from the North Pole, Santa's workshop.
She is now a Nurse! Her sons are doing great! She was able to keep her home, purchased a new car.. Santa is real. He lives in us.. But allow your son to figure it out and then to join in..