H.G.
Shelley,
Sorry you're going through the difficulty of a divorce. I'm not sure what your financial situation is, or what your relationship is with your husband, but when I got divorced I had almost no money and went through a paralegal who helped me with all the paperwork for a reasonable fee and then I filed it. It was so much more affordable than the lawyers were! Here's her number: Family Affair Divorce ###-###-####. She's located in St Paul and just tell her you were referred by a fellow mom who was divorced in 2003/2004. Best of luck!
H.