After reading the question about where other than the bedroom do you "have fun" with your SO or have you, it got me thinking does anyone have a more or less adventerous partner? My ex and I were all about spur of the moment whether it be in the woods, on the stairs, in the car, or on top of the car , my BF gets nervous on being caught and less turned on midway through outdoors, hes responsible....booohoo, so I don't try now...i am in every way accept this way...lol=( so does anyone have this sittuation where one of you is spontaneous and one isn't so much? My BF is fine as long as its in a locked room, so if its at a friends place in a room or bathroom, hes fine, but not outside or anywhere someone could walk in, probably smart actually but anyone have a SO like this, or has anyone been caught? if so what happened?
We got walked up on several times, even by a cop once, and a forest ranger on another occasion. It's not funny at the time, but it's laughable now.
My hubs is so weird that way... like he won't mess around without locking a door because of the kids... but at the same time, doesn't care if our NEIGHBORS see us.
I'm up for anything, as long as the kids don't see!! I'm very openly flirty with my guy.... which may or may not lead to more, but I'm much more into PDA than he is. It's funny though, because I wasn't this way with anyone else, only him!
yeah, locked room kinda guy - I had my fun with an ex we broke every rule you could think of ... ahh to be in your early 20's again.
I too have had more adventurous exes, (one was a lot more so than I) but the man good enough to marry is awesome in so many ways....but no he's not too adventurous OUTSIDE the bedroom. (That's not true-any room but children's rooms are fine, as long as they are locked, lol). I think the difference though is that I was a kid, and now we are grown adults. I think we got away with things a lot more because of our youth, but we should know not to get caught as adults.
When I was young (I mean YOUNG-young; 16-19) I went through a stage where I not only did get caught, but was a little bit of an exhibitionist. (NOT in a place where kids could see, but I didn't mind otherwise). As for police, I got the flash light thing in one car...and couldn't get out to open the door to talk to him because the backseats were on child lock and I didn't know that, since noone had ever sat in my backseat before. And I couldn't open the windows because the car was off. I was fumbling around all over the place trying to answer him and talk to him, but it was J. stupid. I had to climb up into the front seat to open the door to talk, and that was so dumb that he J. laughed and laughed, so did we, and that was all. He J. told us to get dressed and go away. Another time I told the officer that we weren't doing anything wrong, I was J. trying to teach my bf how to kiss because he was sloppy. The cop burst out laughing, and said well the park is closed, and we got a call someone was setting off fireworks out here. I said "No, I haven't seen anyone, and we haven't had enough time to start ours". He laughed hard, even dropped his light, and J. walked away. That bf was kind of mad at M., but it was TRUE. Once I'd been crushing on a guy who was my bf that year, an exchange student from Spain though so I knew he was leaving in a year so it wouldn't go anywhere. But one evening it all came to a head and he kissed M. while I was driving. I punched him in the face yelling at him because I'd J. recently wrecked my Jeep and was now driving mom's car, and I could have had a wreck. He yelled "Then pull over!" and so I J. yanked over to the shoulder of the highway and pounced into the passenger seat. We had our windows down though, which I didn't think about. In the middle of everything, I had this weird thought like I hope this doesn't mess up our friendship, because I LIKED him, so I said "Hey, we're still J. friends right?" and a voice RIGHT NEXT TO M. started laughing. I looked and there was a policeman leaning on his elbow in my window. I screamed and he laughed and asked if we were alright, he was driving right behind us, and we pulled over so fast he stopped with us because he thought I'd had a blowout. So he'd been there the whole time. I was so mad. I drove away while he was still standing there. NOT funny then, but later, it was. The most embarassing one was when we used to play "Have you ever" and we were at a school dance and walking past the cars to the school, and there was a police car parked there. I asked "Hark! Have you ever, in a police car?" We jumped in all happy, but afterwards, we realized that we'd FORGOTTEN that the doors don't open from the inside. We couldn't get out, we were trapped. The guy didn't come back FOR AGES. We J. sat there all sheepishly and missed most of the dance. The policeman came back like "what the?" and was mad. I tried to sweet talk my way out of it and made some jokes. He did let us go, but was pretty stern. I think he had mercy on us because I WAS funny, also we'd missed most of the dance and my date was embarrassed beyond belief. I could go on and on, but should refrain from the other stuff. Never got "in trouble" though. (But a friend of mine did, her mom had to pick her up at the police station, LOL).
Oh, boy. My ex and I were very adventurous...we did it pretty much anywhere.
Once, when things were getting hot and heavy at the park, a cop walked up and did the typical flashlight deal. We both laughed. The cop laughed.
We visited Snoqualamie Falls in Washington State. We were hidden behind some rocks, getting busy, and looked up....we could J. BARELY be seen by those on the far edge of the viewing platform! Whoops! Some old guy got a nice eyeful of my fabulous booty. I'm glad he didn't have a heart attack!
My hubs is a locked room kinda guy too...he will adventure to unlocked room if NO ONE and I mean No one is around. I would be all about the thrill...well I have with exes been all about the thrill. He's J. not into "getting into trouble" or having the kids catch us.
