K.M.
N.:
I got one as well with my 3rd child, who was the largest! My was somewhat painful and I couldn't lift anything over 10 pounds, which meant I couldn't lift any of my children, including my newborn!
I did have the surgery, 9 weeks after my son was born. The surgery is nothing, but the recovery will take a few months. I've never had a C section, but I guess I might liken it to a small one. I barely have a scar from it and I'm glad that I did it. I too was worried, but it's best for your health not to "hope" things will go away or lead to complications further down the road. Let me know if I can be of help.