S.W.
I would visit the JAG office for some pointers. Since you have not been married for 10 years you are not entitled to any of his retirement. Child support and alimony are topics that should be considered if you did not work or have not worked during the marriage. Where will you live? If on base/post you will have to move off on the economy once the marriage is over. The child will get an ID card and will be able to use the medical facilities but that will be spelled out in your JAG visit.
Military marriage is a difficult lifestyle but one that is necessary. I wish you well.
the other S.
Retired Military Wife