I know you asked for a woman, but...
Dr. Gary Nickel @ 222 N J St, Tacoma, ###-###-#### is fantastic! I switched to him in my 5th months w/ my son b/c he was recommended by another dr. whose wife had used Dr. Nickel for all 5 of their children! He always asks if there's anything else, any more questions, and instead of brushing things off and saying, "Don't worry about it," he respects your concerns and answers you.
Also, Xmas '08, when I was 5.5 mo preg, I had appendicitis, but we didn't know for a long time it wasn't something wrong w/ my baby. He was in constant contact w/ hospital. Even when he found out baby was ok, he came to hospital on Xmas Day and advocated for me, advising me and the surgeon what procedures would or would not be good for me and my baby at that point. This was WAY above and beyond the call, and I would go back to him in a heartbeat. He's still my GYN, but I plan no more babies.
Whomever you choose, good luck. :-)