Hi L.,
I'm sorry you have to have this surgery done. Did you get a second opinion? If not, I strongly suggest you do so. I had a partial hysterectomy. I still have my overies. Thank god because they are the only thing that is keeping me from going through premature menapause. If you have a full hysterectomy you will be forced to go through early menapause, since you are only 41. I'm sure that there are other mothers, grandmothers and even great grandmothers that have answered your request and informed you of the cons of going through menapause. I myself at the age of 48 am not looking forward to it. The hot flashes, irritability, crying at the drop of a hat, forgetfullness and even worse the lessened desire for sex! lol. Even when you do have sex it is painful because during menapause the lining in your vagina thins and makes sex painful. please for your sake and the sake of your health, unless it is a do or die situation don't have a full hysterectomy. Keep at least your overies to keep you from going through menapause earlier than necessary. Any surgery is bad for you unless it is a do or die situation. Don't do it unless it is realy hazardous to your health.
God be with you in this time of need to make such a decision in your young life. Make an informed decision and research on line the reasons as to why your doctor feels you need this surgery. Then make the decision, you won't regret it.
good luck, I will say a prayer for you.
A.