We're getting together with our next door neighbor to combine our fireworks and food. She's a GREAT cook, she made lasagna and enchiladas last year, and I handled desserts and appetizers. We'll have hot dogs, corn on the cob, macaroni and potato salad, lemonade, and whatever else I decide to serve, too. We set out chairs in front of our houses on the sidewalk to watch the the kids play, the fireworks, eat and socialize. The kids decorate the driveways and sidewalks with sidewalk chalk.
This year I'm going to make some red, white and blue iced cupcakes, and place a sparkler in them. My neighbor and I are also going to make homemade ice cream, and let the kids try their hand at making ziplock baggie ice cream ~
http://familyfun.go.com/recipes/homemade-ice-cream-in-a-b...
One year my grandson and I baked a cake and he decorated it in red and blue stars, icing and sprinkles. In a mobile home park nearby where my cousin lives they have an annual Independence day parade through the park, it's a big event, anyone can go see it and they have a huge BBQ afterwards. The library has lots of books in the Children's section on Independence Day/4th of July, and local cemeteries sometimes have ceremonies for people in the community to attend and you can see patriotic decorated graves of fallen heroes.
PBS has a special every year in the evening with fireworks set to patriotic music, it's awesome : ) Oh, and I almost forgot, here's a cake I've made many times, it's fantastic for the 4th, a "Stars and Stripes" cake ~
http://www.bettycrocker.com/recipes/stars-and-stripes-cak...
I took the liberty of checking to see what's happening near you and found these and both are free ~
Waxahachie - Crape Myrtle Parade
Patriotic hometown parade. 10am on 7/2. The parade will start at College Street and end in Getzendaner Park. Free. For more info: ###-###-####, http://www.waxahachiechamber.com/.
Waxahachie - Crape Myrtle Tailgate Celebration & Fireworks Show
Crape myrtles are in full bloom for the patriotic celebration. Spectators are encouraged to bring lawn chairs and their barbecue grills to cook-out before or during the show. There will be a children’s area with bounce house activities. Following the concert will be the spectacular H-E-B fireworks display broadcast to music. 6pm on 7/2 at Waxahachie Sports Complex (Driving Directions). Free. For more info: ###-###-####, http://www.waxahachiechamber.com/.
Here's the main list with activities for other towns, hopefully some are near you ~
http://www.metroplexbaby.com/July4.htm